Icebergs of Attitude
With arms crossed and heads leaning at
an angle of skepticism, the room full
of adolescents indicated that they weren't
going to easily accept anything from an
organization called the National Institute
on Media and the Family. I was at Carondelet
Catholic School in Minneapolis, MN, for
four MediaWise presentations. The first
was with the middle school. As I watched
the students slump in their seats and
roll their eyes, my mind wandered to the
image of an iceberg, remembering that
the tip of the iceberg is a warning of
danger under the surface. Adolescents
can sometimes present what appear to be
icebergs of attitude. Then I recalled
Dr. David Walsh saying, "Adolescence
is not a problem to be solved, it's an
experience to be lived."
Thawing of the Ice
The presentation began with adolescent
brain research - the flame of curiosity
was lit and they began to ask insightful,
thoughtful and creative questions. Little
evidence of an "Imagination Deficit"
here - these kids were critical thinkers,
not willing to accept just anything
an adult tells them. As they realized
I would not tell them to throw away
their TVs and iPods, their body language
changed; the iceberg of attitude began
to melt. Our time together went by quickly.
Soon our hour was up, and I had to move
on.
Unforgettable Adolescents
As the day continued with other grades
and an evening parent presentation,
I kept thinking of the middle school.
It seemed that our session was incomplete.
It was a relief when the teachers approached
me after the parent program with similar
thoughts. We decided on another session
the following day, this time examining
the "jolts and tricks" used
by advertisers to influence us. The
students became enthusiastic and inspired.
Icebergs no more, they seemed like rivers,
ready to flow with new knowledge into
this wonderful "information age"
we live in.
Next time you navigate close to an
"iceberg" of adolescent attitude,
remember: under the surface there is
often a wonderful young person wanting
to understand his or her world. At Carondolet
the future is in good hands with these
MediaWise kids!
Thats the news from the road,
Michael Mann, Institute Speaker
National Institute on Media and the
Family
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